Here are some things I recommended for FB! I picked out the top two choices, that I could find – feel free to leave names of products in comments for her to try!

Moisturisers:
Mario Badescu control moisturiser (fill out their questionnaire on their site and they’ll send samples)
DDF Ultra-Lite Oil-Free Moisturising Dew – I can’t vouch for this, but it’s supposedly pretty good!

Oil-control (if you’ve got crazy oily skin, these are a better bet than the moisturisers! If they don’t work, the next step would be switching to a cleanser for oily skin, adding in an astringent toner, using an oil-free moisturiser, and then an oil-free treatment x.x)
Dr. Brandt Pores No More – though a little pricey, this sounds absolutely ah-mazing.
Dermadoctor Tease Zone is a love it/hate it from the sounds of it… but those that love it really love it!